Yep.....and the only way they are going to want to spend time with you is if you are happy, positive, fun, and do things with them that make them look forward to being with you.
Every Sunday when my Xw drops off our daughters one of the first things out of their mouth is "Dad, what are we going to do today???"
G is accurate......they are old enough to make their own decisions.
My buddy has a 14 yr old daughter that has decided she wants to live with him full time instead of her mom. He has taken his XW back to court to get his daughter full time and to have his CS reduced. Why? Because that is what his daughter wanted and the XW would not agree to it.
