A bit more background - my daughter and I opened up to eachother and I told her them not being around has me depressed and I really want to to see them. I told her too that mom and I made this plan, and if we couldn't make this plan work, the courts would have to decide for us. That probably cranked up my daughter's anxiety at the time too. I was trying to explain that the W and I made this plan and we did so in there best interest.
The W responded a few mins ago with: "Telling her she "making your depression worse" and telling her we will go to court over it is only increasing her anxiety. You cannot put those things on a 15 year old. She is not responsible for your depression and making her feel that way is cruel. She told me she wants to spend time with you when she is ready. Your forcing he is making things worse.I know its hard for you. The emotional damage being done is hard for me. This is not about us.Its about them and and I will do everything in my power to be there to support and listen to them I will not orce them. We have agreed on that and now you want to force it. I am done with this conversation"
I am starting to think it's time to go the legal route...I'm trying not to upset my kids. I am trying to handle this well, but I don't feel like I am. I'm seriously at my wits end.
