Thanks guys - I am going to take your advice and push to have them now. My daughter called me on the phone last night and stated she wasn't mad at me, and wanted to spend time with me, however, she just did not want to spend nights in the house with me at all yet. I explained I loved her and that mom and I agreed on this schedule and she just became upset. We agreed to continue to talk today after she cooled off.
I did think it was incredibly brave she called to talk.
I am going to ask for my therapist today for her input too. I just don't understand why my daughter won't spend nights.
I txt'd the W too and told her I want the kids to stay with me during my scheduled time this weekend.
Lord, all of this BS due to a WAS. I wish someday for karma to come around to her for destroying this family.