That is your plan. No matter what his crazy does or doesn't do. You are still too focused on him. I agree you should vent here rather than make mistakes with him. Good way to look at it.
"Unless he did have an offer on a house and he was up yesterday and needed those papers last night. What is him making dinner was a way to discuss that with me???"
So what? He will let you know eventually. Who cares what his plans were last night. You handled it perfectly.
"What if he is not coming home today because he thinks I have already moved on so he has less guilt for himself in that department???"
Nothing you do in DBing is for him. You are still worried about how he is going react and feel about your DBing (not detached!!). So what if he thinks you are moving on? That is what you want him to think!! Do you really have any other choice at this point? He has an OW. He wants to move out. He wants a D. How is doing anything other than doing things to help you move on in your best interests at this point?
Trust me, your moving on won't make him want OW, moving out, and D any more than he already does. It may make him question if he is doing the right thing, however.
KEEP DBING!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
