2) I never expected he would show for the landscaping appointment. I do not think it is payback. Last night you gave him exactly what he has asked for.
Look, if you have any chance of turning this around you have to drop any guilt for DBing and DBing well! He asked for this, not you. He can end this at any time. His current circumstances are ALL his doing.....not yours!!!! I don't care how bad of a W you were pre-BD, this is all on him. Spending energy outside of the MR (As) or walking away, is not the answer to marital problems.
Steve85
Last night I got home. He never said why he needed the financial papers last night... I never addressed as I was going to address in person this am.
I got home and looked at the computer history. He was able all by himself to log on to where he needed and get all the paperwork himself. I saw that he did that.
Then I say he tried to log into my facebook page again.
For a man who stated he didn't want me in his business and he didn't want to be in mine... he is the one who is turning out to be the nosey one!!!!
