2) I never expected he would show for the landscaping appointment. I do not think it is payback. Last night you gave him exactly what he has asked for.
Look, if you have any chance of turning this around you have to drop any guilt for DBing and DBing well! He asked for this, not you. He can end this at any time. His current circumstances are ALL his doing.....not yours!!!! I don't care how bad of a W you were pre-BD, this is all on him. Spending energy outside of the MR (As) or walking away, is not the answer to marital problems.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
