I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. It sounds like he is still in the "affair fog." Where everything with this person is butterflies and unicorns.

I agree with the above. Do you have the DR book? Order it if not. Also, I would consider IC. This forum is a good place to be.

the best apology is changed behavior.
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me: 45 h: 48
m: 23 T: 26
DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11
BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016
BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016
BD3: H wants a D 11/2019