H left for work. I came home at 9 as I said. He had left a serving of lasagna on stove for me. I finished mynwork outside. Had dinner. Did some dishes and took shower..
AND
H texted: did you see lasagna
Uhmm yeah... it was out on the stove in plain sight.
I waited 1hrnand 20min so it's well past 11 ... so he isn't sure when I got in
Me texted: yup, thank you!
End of story.... H hasn't randomly texted like that since BD. I know he is just checking to see if I'm still plan B.