Well Wolf judging on how you and your ex interact with each other your life isn’t going to move on for a really long time.
My guess is that both of you guys are so wrapped in yourselves and your bfs and gfs that your kids needs are not getting met.
I am trying to help my kids out. I am trying to get their needs met. I have listened on how to communicate with ex. But she is very difficult. For very long I was a nice guy and gave in to her needs. This board opened my eyes up about that. So now I try and do what’s “right”. But ex is so use to me placating her she fires back with hostility. I know I can’t control her, I can only control myself. I have become so much more patient and I do a lot of validating now. I even do it for my children, validate.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20
