Need advice on stubborn W

[AKuei]

I would suggest that you not contact the OM about anything at this time. I would suggest that you block the person that you are getting excessive communications from. The best thing to do is just leave things be. The more you attempt to rationalize w/your w, the more frustrated you are going to get. You don't want to push them together by attempting to contact the OM or telling your w that you want to do so. She will feel the need to protect him at all costs. The less you say about the situation, the better. If the affair is ongoing, it needs to die a natural, slow death on its own.

Now, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and continue moving forward. No more relationship talks, no more talks about contacting the OM. Block the woman today.

Focus on you!

Thank you for the great advice Job. This is exactly what I should do not even though I have a strong desire to have a closure of some sorts. Guess forcing her will only make her come a conclusion that I'm a begging, pleading slob.

I'm still wrapping my head whether my W is a WW or MLC... Or does it really matter anyway now?