Need advice on stubborn W

[AKuei]

thanks for the advice steve85...

Now it took a turn for the worse. She found out that I wanted to approach the OM by getting his number. My intention is to talk to him about her sister contacting me about the excessive communication; and my W flared up and said I'm making the situation worse. And then BD. She mentioned divorce. Later when she came home I asked her if she's serious about the D and she said she dropped it out of anger but the intention is there now.

I told her I'm not going to force her for a closure and I left the house. Looks like whatever I've achieved so far is down the drain and I have to start the LRT all over again. It's until she wants to have the R talk or I die; whichever comes first.