Thanks BenB

[Mumin]

Another talk last night. W approached me.
Basically about my texts and what they mean. As suspected she thinks everything stands still in terms of how we discussed things earlier (before DB)
Said I am getting my head around things. Including considering how I want to live when we sell the house. Said the way things are now won't work long-term. (didn't mention any time frame)
Also Made it clear to her that she won't be living here if I buy her share of the house.
Also said circumstances have changed and validated her feelings a bit.

W basically said, I understand that you are different to me now and I feel I don't have much of a say in things since I put us in this situation.
Confessed OM. "I'm seeing OM, which you have probably figured out." (I didn't really comment on it. Should I have?)
She also said you have to understand I have to understand all these changes in my way of handling things are big changes for her. I was screaming inside but validated.
Kept asking me about house and living situation and eventually said something like "I am logging out, you have to make a decision. Tell me when you have Decided."

I think She says this because she feels she won't have a good chance at getting proper housing for her and the kids.
I said you could probably find a place to rent.

Probably sleeping at my brother's place tonight. (for me)