Summary: M 40, WAW 40. S8, D6, D4. Moved out 6/19 after months of silence (and having written apology letters to my W with no response). W alluded to accusations of abuse and concerns about child safety in MC. Currently running a 30/70 timeshare and finances still merged. W lives in the marital home and does not work, I pay all the bills. Working in mediation to try to agree on D details.