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Right now I’m torn between “not doing the heavy lifting” as far as working with mediator, real estate agent, etc. and moving things along so W clearly sees I’m letting her go.


When it comes to the selling of your house/property and other legally binding issues that directly affect your life, you should be represented and/or make sure you are treated fair/equally.

Has a mediator set an appointment to meet.........or do you mean you've told your W you wouldn't agree to see a mediator?

There is an old saying, "Don't cut off your nose to spite your face".


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!