Finding patience and facing fear

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I had a L in place but did nothing else until XH Filed

My XH did not ask me to do anything, but he mentioned his destination time and again
He knew he was leaving..It was just a matter iof when
He knew he would eventually file and he did

As long as u have everything in place, and you can watch the finances and take your name off shared credit cards
Perhaps spilt money in account sooner than later....
remember they lie and if OW is in place, they nag them and they want as much money as possible
they no longer care about us and in some cases, htye also abandon the kids

I think the MLCer will plan and plot the money issue...If we are not smart and business like here, they will lie, cheat, hide, steal and try to get us to let them take control of the finances in the D process

This is the time to get strong for the fight, but as long as you can moniter funds and cards,, you can leave the filing to him and just ignore his D talks

Let the L handle all the disclosure stuff

dont sign anything