Right now I’m torn between “not doing the heavy lifting” as far as working with mediator, real estate agent, etc. and moving things along so W clearly sees I’m letting her go.
From what I’ve read here, it seems like the LBS ends up with a D more often than not when they focus on themself and wait for W/MLCW to file their paperwork etc. Why waste time (aside from GAL, working on myself of course) waiting for the inevitable when I will never be more attractive than when I’m walking away?
As stated above, I don’t necessarily want D, but it seems inevitable at some point.
