Finding patience and facing fear

[Kindly]

You are the best DnJ!
Thank you for the url/clean title tutorial and thank you so much for making me smile ...”bonk”
Your advice and insights are invaluable and always so kindly written...thx for taking the time.
This is such a good place to vent and then get the reality check / 2x4 ...I managed to avoid sending 2 questionable emails thx to you! Sometimes doing nothing is the best course of action.

Kind, this is business. A deal gone sideways. Remember that.

Thank you. I might get this tattooed on my forehead.

Rational is more logic and reason. Irrational is more emotions.

I feel because he won’t talk to me at all, any correspondence I do get activates my irrational emotional side. I’m getting better at talking that voice down but it takes up so much time and energy constantly trying to keep your mouth in check.

Your above statement shows a lot of control and trust issues with H. Well obviously DnJ of course it does. (I can almost hear you saying that lol). Therefore another set of eyes, those of a dispassionate legal counsel, will be so worth it.

Lol!! This made me laugh and is also a very valid point. I think in the near further I’ll be digging deeper on “control and trust”

Pls someone 2x4 me and stop the cycle! Lol
Bonk.

^^^lmao! Much needed! And I think it worked ...for now.
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I will read and reread your insights on fear DnJ....my eyes are so heavy as I type this I need sleep.

D17 is gone for the night and I’ve got a dark sky and stars to look at. Doing pretty good as a single guy.
DnJ

Beautiful!! You’re doing soooo well for yourself AND helping others. These small moments we take for ourselves are sooo big!
Goodnight for now.