I think the very first enquiry you might want to make is with your L to see if these changes to XW's living circumstances justify revisiting the agreement, or making visits subject to them not taking place at the new house, given your concerns. You might need hard evidence to justify your concerns, but I'd definitely relay all this to your L and get proper advice.
As to your queries, I think these touch on legal rights and responsibilities, so please talk to your L about this and get the right advice the first time so you can plan your actions or mitigating steps properly on a solid base.
I'm sorry if that 10 month anniversary was tough for you mate. You know though all that BS she spouted is just a history rewrite in justification for leaving. I think the more extreme the allegations and stories in the rewrite, the more we can be sure the LBS was a great person - kind of an exponentially inverse paradox or something! Mate, your XW's rewrite was pretty extreme so the only inference we can draw is you were one helluva AMOAFWL!
Keep that chin up DB brother! You're doing so well mate!
Cheers DS
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
