I have not called or texted... I will address his issues with coming and going at whim in person.
I will not have it come across to him in a text message that gives him any inkling this is about control.. and something to snicker about with his new distraction.
This is about respect. He doesn't need to be here. Whatever he has told himself.
I told myself that if he was still here... we had a chance... a chance at positive interactions and to work through this... whatever... he is "here" but he is staying elsewhere... nothing to work on. He should be gone.
For now I will just keep cleaning and sorting things which I should have done some time ago.
