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[CanBird]

~J~ 00 reached out via text and it was detailed! Not short at all. Said where he was (which I already knew; we discussed it post departure).

He also apologized in detail (wow!!), for being short with me the other day when we spoke on the phone. WOW. He explained in detail why he was short too. WOW.

What's next? Well see NEXT week. YIKES!!! (CLEAN THE HOUSE!!!) He told me he plans to return HERE to see D3 & has other business to tend to (which he explained in detail). Those weren't his exact words, but that's the plan.

Zero expectations right? I can't help but analiyze a few details, pieces of this situation. Of course the little hamster in my head is running at full speed on her wheel. SLOW DOWN GIRL! Breathe....

For me, it's the first time 00 has returned since his full confession. I'm 99.9% sure he's been with OW/xgf. Regardless of what he's been up to or where he's been, it's part of his "jouney" that he must do & it has nothing to do with me. I get it.

If it wasn't for this forum, the DB book & everyone on this forum, I don't know how I'd handle this. (It's almost been a year since the first BD). I've never been to IC & as a couple, we've never went to MC. (I'm all for it because I want R). Not sure about 00, but 99.999% he hasn't spoke to any C. Hopefully he's talked to family, and has some more clairity about the deeper stuff from his past.

My question now is, how do I conduct myself while 00 is here? I'm assuming he's staying in our home, as he hasn't said otherwise. Act as if he's a room mate? Treat him like a brother (without hugging him?). Ugh... it will be SO hard not to be flirty with him. He REALLY REALLY still does it for me. Anyway... suggestions please!

Love you guys (((((Hugs))))))