U,

I sorry you are having a rough time.

I want you to write down this statement and put in on your bathroom mirror. "No one will ever do or say anything to me that I don't allow them to".

Don't allow her to take more then 50% of your kids time from you.

Don't allow her to prevent you from being at the party at the house you pay for.

Don't allow your timidness prevent you from meeting new friends.

U no one is coming to rescue from your problems. You're going to have to dig yourself out of this $hit show yourself.