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Unfortunately this is a typical behavior by WW and LBS. you were given great advice and you ignored it it. She gave her word and went back on it. I would frame it as you have thought about it and you need time and space to think about what you want and ask her to to move back to her mothers. I doubt she will but it’s worth a shot. My guess is that she’s still in contact with om and she’s going along with this facade that she gave it one more try and there’s no spark. Let me ask you a question. Take out her words. Is she doing anything to make you feel like she’s trying to recon with you?