OG sending hugs your way . I so wish us DBers could grab a weekend away or a Meetup!! You are doing amazingly under difficult circumstances. WTF he wants a family ski trip !!

I am so feeling your pain at both the emotional and physical disconnect . The person who should pick you up when you fall is so close but so far frown .

Remember all those amazing things you have said to me, May, Wayfarer, wooba , Cardinal and everyone else. , keep strong and re read your posts. You have given so much strength to us all, you need to remind yourself of those things. . You can do this. Hugs xx


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020