Originally Posted by KitCat
If one could only go back.

Yes. If only when your partner told you he couldn't endure the long commute, you'd validated his concerns, instead of getting all defensive about what you were doing in return. If only when you became defensive he'd validated your concerns instead of getting defensive and then putting his diddly doo in another lady's hoohah.

KitCat, you'll learn from your mistakes and do better next time, no? And hopefully for a partner who won't cheat on you at all, let alone cheat on you multiple times.