Originally Posted by KitCat
H: The commute is wearing me down. I can't stand the long drive. That's 2hr of my day that I can't do things I want to do.

Me: But I do all the cooking, laundry, cleaning, shopping and managing this household. I do all this because you commute.

I relate.

A lot of MRs face similar struggles. Resentments build up over time. Value differences are accentuated rather than tolerated and appreciated.

Don't beat yourself up. You are aware of your part, as well as his part, and you are working on self-improvement. Those are great things!

Last edited by unchien; 02/28/20 08:10 PM.