That's the plan! Thanks wooba. Living my life 'as if' isn't changing any time soon. Thank you
Originally Posted by Pommy99
I am the queen of over-analysing but if I was going to over-analyse I would say any of these: -he’s having doubts about leaving but equally doubts about staying - just buying time until he understands himself a bit better -he’s giving you a message that he wants to stay but perhaps pride/ego is stopping him from admitting he’s been a jerk -he’s trying to find out where your head is at because he’s worried about you pulling the plug on him -he’s comfortable with the status quo, MO is a PITA and expensive, and why leave if he is getting some of his needs met at home
For sure he isn’t ready to go anywhere right now. And he definitely isn’t seeing you as his sister any more (which is great and I’m still sooo envious about that but very pleased for you!)
I'm also constantly over analyzing and over thinking. So trust me I've gone through like 40 different scenarios, but I've decided to quit giving his ever changing process here that much emotional energy. I'm just accepting the gift of time because it's keeping our girls' lives status quo for a little longer, and I'm not worrying about what it all means. We are in limbo. We aren't moving in either direction any time soon. We've just slowed the time line here, and at this point that's all I really want, the least amount of disruption to my girls' lives as possible.
