Learning how to stand, hope, & keep moving

[peacetoday]

I often wondered the same about my XH
he clearly let go easily without to much pain
while I sat with all the grief and loss
How could he just let go?
I thought about this a lot

I think you have a great point
they process things differently and maybe MLC also adds to this because the fantasy of the new mis intoxicating
while the old seems boring to a MLC mind

But in the end the tables flip and I have seen first hand this part
we who choose to do the work, heal and let go stand strong in a new powerful life, while the MLC life continues to crumble
This is not what I would wish for them...but I see it to be true for many