S19 and I were talking last night and he said home ownership is overrated. He then came back with he tells himself this to feel better about the part where wages haven't kept up with the cost of living.
I do this with H. I bring up bad memories of how he is a bad husband/father. I wonder if my memories are tainted are if they are true. Latest thought was the only interest he's ever had with the kids (or me) if it's something he's cares about. S19 has aspergers and doesn't talk much so when S19 gets chatty he gets my full attention. This bothered H because it always seemed to happen at night (10pm). I'd think but it's Friday night can't you just sleep in or take a nap tomorrow? Why aren't you hanging on every word this kid says?
