I will work on NOT texting him OR calling him. I hate the fact that I always have to get the last word in. I want to leave him hanging - not the other way around. I was so empowered last Saturday. He snooped on me... lol. And, called for no reason.
Commit to not texting or calling (and even talking) . Nothing is urgent. You can take as much time as you require to do anything. You can deflect anything you need to if pressured by him. "I have not decided" or "I need more time to process this" "I will let you know when I decide"
He is the one that broke the marriage vows, not you. Stop engaging with him and focus on protecting yourself. Emotionally, Financially, legally etc.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
