A fight will not save this M. Letting go and detaching. Moving on. Letting him life without me is my only chance of a wake up call for him.
Nothing you do will save this M. This M will be saved if and when he decides he wants to save the M.
You shouldn't be doing anything as a "wake up call". He will see right through the manipulation and it will push him further away. You let go and detach. FOR YOU. Move on. FOR YOU. Let him live life without you. FOR YOU.
Doing that MIGHT wake him up. It might not. But it will allow you to move forward with dignity, self-respect, and a healthy outlook on life.
You never answered me on IC. IF you aren't in IC why not?
As for IC - getting there. Had such a terrible experience the last time 2yr ago... a little PTSD there I think.
But, I did find out he was wrong about legal S - assets are protected. That was his one reason not giving me legal S. But now since they are --- will he give me legal S????
He is gone for the weekend. Of course I want to text him about his mis-information... I can't stand having to sit on this all weekend. But, he is with A and will want nothing to do with me.
I will go to work. I work all weekend. I will stay focused on doing other things.
