Just got here myself. Filed for D a few months after 28 years of marriage. I have to work another 19 years but like you I'm trying to look on the bright side. It wasn't until he was gone that I realized how much his unhappiness affected all of us. He's a "I'll be happy when...person".
Won't lie I worry about the practicalities as well. My strategy is to work really hard to focus on NOW not as a stick my head in the sand way but as in I'll handle things as they come up.
