What is wrong with me that I think I need to have the last word????
He got up and he was late. He was actually nice and relaxed. He casually asked about the Discover bill but I did not have answers to his questions and stated that but still talked it through with him.
He stated he hadn't made anything for dinner so he was going to get a salad from the store.
As he is getting ready to head out he walks to the table and says this is the paperwork we need to fill out just don't read the cover letter.
i just should have said ok and act as if........................ UGH
Instead I reacted from a place of hurt and confusion and he is NOT wanting to deal with any emotion from me. I was trying to get clarification on what was happening S or D. He reacted from a place of anger where he shouted off that he would do everything and he would file because this was going to D.. final.
He left feeling I had raised my voice. He left feeling anger. Those two things just strengthen his resolve to leave.
If I had just let him walk out the door we could have had a positive experience rather than a negative one.
We texted a bit this morning. He said now was the time. We would talk next week. I let him have the last text.
He will be out with OW all weekend.
I have left his love tank on empty too long... he tried to tell me... he felt I wasn't listening and had lost interest in him. The latter couldn't be further from the truth.
I have to see atty... I guess I should take off my ring.
