So in order to try to save my M... I kick him out?
Nope. You kick him it because he is a lying cheater.
And why is it your job to get him up for work. Stop doing that.
Well at least I didn't get him up on time???? I made sure he was up 2 1/2 hr late. Besides I need to go to bed too...and he's in it...lol.
He was nice and chatty and asking where I has been... hmmm out with friends... he wasnt upset for the most part. I thought it was going to he a good night.
Right ar the end he points out the paperwork of financial statements for D. Last we talked it was legal S While he stated it was not what he thought he never said no. The day we discussed he was so stressed and I said I wanted breathing room and a cooling off period. He even said atty said legal S was way to destress a situation. But he never said no.... and now we are back to but he isn't saying D and he is being evasive.
I'm getting upset. He says fine he will file and fill out and sign. I have a year to sign and if I don't sign its gonna be game on pointing to my son's room. I said are you threatening me?
The weather here is bad and I think he went off the road twice on his way to work. He briefly talked on the phone. Clarified that we are still sitting down and doing numbers when hi bonus is in next week. He tried to defend himself by saying he got screwed in his last D. You are going to get screwed. You are going to part with 1/2 of everything. Your cushy retirement is going to be less so.
After things calmed down... he's sent some texts basically saying I'm not listening to him, I'm overthinking everything and I'm frustrating to deal with.
I stopped arguing by trying to validate------- I understand it's not easy being here right now and I didnt mean to upset you by raising my voice. I am sorry.
Still no word that he is gone till who knows when... given that tonight sucked probably not too soon.
