I showed him what I was doing in the closet... gulp... I needed to release some tension... he is occupying the bed and S18 is home. Yup, not my finest moment but he was sleeping so I thought whatever its my bedroom too. So yeah, that's going to be some laughs at my expense when they are 3 beers in.
You have unmet needs, you go to the closet, not outside the marriage. There's nobility in that, no?
I hope you enjoy your concert event this evening. (:
And tomorrow, iirc, you see an attorney! Maybe they'll advise you to file something.