Stranger In My House Part 3

[Pommy99]

. And while I had been questioning his rewriting history and saying we hadn't been happy for a long time, my newfound good times with old friends is making me start to wonder if what he is saying might actually be true. Perhaps I am happier without his antics after all.

I’m pleased to here you are enjoying GALing - you make it sound so effortless- a state I’d love to get to.

Im totally with you on your sentiments that H might be right on some things after all, as I am starting to feel similar in my sitch. I often hadn’t wanted to admit to myself that things had been as bad as H was making out, but in the back of my mind, I think he is often right. I think this has come about through validating, by actually listening to him and seeing things through his eyes. It’s made me take a look at myself, my contribution to the marriage breakdown and how unhappy I’d become.

Keep up the good work as it seems to be bringing you greater clarity as time goes on.