I remember when she first told me about him the first words out of her mouth was that he is 5'6
That is just a weird thing to say. I mean of all the possible things to say... he’s really nice to me, he’s a car salesman (or whatever) he’s very funny, he’s an ex cop, he’s from California, I mean I could fill up the rest of this thread with potential first statements and still never get to he’s 5-6 as the first thing she tells you. Lol.
I do have to jump in with LH, it would not at all surprise me if she bailed tomorrow. Then again we are trying to explain the actions of a WAW/WW. They don’t tend to start making more sense even years after they dropped their bomb and moved on. The stuff I’ve been told my WAW has done... omg. Perhaps another reason I’m as close to “her” kids as I am and they, at least her daughter and SIL, have little to do with her and her S3.5 at the time of her daughters birth asked who that woman was. “That’s your grandma” he was told to which he said “no she’s not, that’s my grandma” pointing to his fathers mom. But I digress - just that we could all go broke trying to figure out why a WAW or WW or ex does and says what they do. Just don’t let her bring you to her level. Keep being the adult ready and willing to meet.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
