You were used to it so you didn't see the warning signs in your H.
Hoping you end up dating a lovely black man and it drives your ex crazy.
One of D14's best friends is a closeted gay, black boy. He is the sweetest kid and yet H can't stand him. He tolerates him only because he doesn't want to alienate D14 more than he already has.
He took D14 to get her nails done (early super dad thing) and there was a man in there getting a pedicure. H was all huffy "can you believe a MAN was getting his nails done?" Really? This angered both D14 and D17. D17 said "and this is why I don't like him".
