22 Years Gone Part 3

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I would like some opinions on this one. I have said before that XW has decided she would like to move in with a friend on May 1. This friend has been divorced and recently just got married to another guy. She has children one of which is a teenage boy who is similar in age as D14. The friend, new husband, children all live in a 4 bedroom house and wife plans on taking one of the rooms. This is not a living situation like a separate living space downstairs or in a completely separate part of the house. The friend is also a counselor that has been coaching XW for a year on how to leave me, on the language to use for abuse, extreme distancing, and things like that. D14 told her mom last August that she had no wish to see or hang out with this person at all. This will force D14 to not only see her but live in her house with her her family and under her rules.

Questions/Concerns so you know where I am coming from ~

1) If D14 and the son fight who is in charge of the discipline? Friend, Husband, or XW
2) If son does something inappropriate who can D14 turn to in this case? Her mom has absolute trust in her friend.
3) If D14 wants to get something to eat who does she ask since it isn't her mom's house but her friends?
4) Will the friend and her husband have the right to discipline her since it is their house.
5) D14 will have absolutely no private space since she will be sharing a room with her mom and the other part of the house is her friends family space.

I have so many other concerns but I am trying to see if this is due to anger at my XW or if these are legitimate concerns. I truly feel that this is not personal but truly what is in the best interest of D14. Having her own place with a roommate seems reasonable, if she gets married while I wouldn't like it that would be my own issue to work through, but moving in with a newly married couple with children from a previous marriage and one being a teenage son? Please let me know what you think.