So I have asked about not sharing a room... his response was that I sleep at night and he sleeps during g the day so we are not sharing a bed.

In the last 2 weeks we have only occupied it together once. He has started to go elsewhere so we dont sleep at the same time in there.

And he is leaving... he usually only wears heavy work jeans. Some are in better shape than others. I got him to go out and get some nice dress jeans to wear when we got out.. he complains about the fit...so I dont make a big deal about what he wears.... well he has packed all 3 of his nice dress jeans... F U

I wont see or hear from him for 3 to 4 days... I will be surprised if his clothes come home... I think he is leaving g some behind.

He gets his big work bonus next week and we were going to tackle what to pay off so we each have debt load relief as we go to 2 household from 1...

So in order to try to save my M... I kick him out?