No matter what you are feeling today only show happiness and contentment. Show him someone he would want to return to
Yeah, when they are cheating and lying then the game changes a bit. You have a WH, not just a WAH. A little more tough love is necessary.
I would ask him at a minimum to move out of the MBR. I wouldn't want to share a bedroom with an adulterer. I would even ask him to move out, though legally he doesn't have to.
You keep insisting "He is leaving..." "He wants to leave" etc. Yet he is still there. You don't expect him to be home but he is.
Have you heard that actions speak louder than words? You are a parent, did you ever threaten to punish your kids and not follow through? Do you think your threats were more effective than the fact that you didn't follow through? I know with my daughter I can say "If you say another word, you lose your phone for a week." but if she says another word and I don't take her phone, what should she believe in the future?
His words are meaningless. He is a lying cheater. If he told me the sky was blue I would question it because nothing that comes out of his mouth has integrity.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
