If he wanted to be gone, he would be. The protecting his assets crap is an excuse.
Did you see this line: "That are willing to let others treat them in ways they wouldn't want their kids or friends to be treated."
Any thoughts on this? What if this was your daughter going through what you are. What would you advise her to do?
He is leaving... he has packed a bag for at least 3 days, maybe 4.
I would say back and give space... get a clear head yourself. I am making pathetic crap moves... I've giving him fodder to discuss with all his friends and A... can you believe what she did now???
He asked me what I was doing in the closet. I said I was just in the closet. He said now you are lying to me. How come I didn't have the guts to say your a liar and cheater????
I'm trying to keep the status quo... not get baited into arguments. I let it go. I showed him what I was doing in the closet... gulp... I needed to release some tension... he is occupying the bed and S18 is home. Yup, not my finest moment but he was sleeping so I thought whatever its my bedroom too. So yeah, that's going to be some laughs at my expense when they are 3 beers in.
I'm showered and dressed nicely for outing tonight - I gotta get some self respect.
