It shouldn't be: letting him stay give me a better chance of saving the MR
It should be: I refuse to share a home with a liar and a cheater.
The first one is a person that is scared. That doesn't have principles that govern their life. That are willing to let others treat them in ways they wouldn't want their kids or friends to be treated.
I am scared... thats the truth
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I would tell him tonight that you want him out. (Realize that legally he likely doesn't have to leave.) And then be ready for the lies, manipulations, and gaslighting.
My guess? He'd be so shocked that you are standing up for yourself that he won't know how to act.
Steve85... I think he would already be gone but he feels that he needs to "be living" here to protect his assests. I don't know where that is coming from other than experience in his first divorce. His XW threw things out and destroyed stuff and supposedly he had no legal ground as it was marital property. I suppose he feels once he files whatever then he stuff is protected from me even if its here? That is what he is telling me.
But really he is going to be gone for 4 days... couldn't I just ditch the stuff then if I was going too?
I think he really wants to leave... he would be gone yesterday if he had a place.
He was up watching videos in bedroom while he "was sleeping". They were so loud I could here them 3 rooms away. So I had to get something out of the bedroom. I was quiet. But, supposedly I woke him up. When I mentioned that I thought he was already awake he denied being up watching videos on his phone... he said he just a couple of phone calls... whatever dude..
