I went and got 90 min massage... it helped. I dont normally relax so much during massage but I think sleep deprivation is kicking my butt.

I wasnt expecting him home this am. He asked if I was going to work... I said no but would be leaving in 4p. He asked when I would be home... I said around noon.

We got little snow overnight but he went out and shoveled my side... not much to really worry about and the salted as we will get a little more. It's a wet snow with warm temps it wont last. He hasnt bothered shoveling when we have had more snow than this.

I suppose it's just something for him to do so he isn't in the house with me.

When he was in the shower I said I'm leaving dogs in or out? He said in and then said out... I put them out and left.

It dawned on me that i hadn't said thank you for the driveway to him.. crud... I mean how can I complain that he didnt say thank you... when I just did it.

Anyway I have plans all day.. and I have paperwork at house to do. He should be asleep when I am home.

I have tickets to a music event and was hoping S18 would attend but he has a school event conflict. My mom would normally go but she has a conflict too. I will go solo...that will have me out of the house and not around him.

He should get plenty of sleep today so I will leave him to get up on his own.

I will avoid any type of contact communication with him today.