Advice during separation from WAS

[mtb1981]

The more I think about it, the more I think she is just trying to keep our "relationship" stable and non confrontational.
I read some notes, that I took from a very emotional conversation we had.. And to be honest, her heart is hardened and numb to me, to put it lightly. She only needs one thing from me right now, and that is a friend and health care. Thats it. As far as I can tell, because she will keep things bottled up.

Is that what you're willing to settle for? Being her friend and source of healthcare? If so, just continue what you're doing. If you want more than that, you need to drop the rope and go NC. I'd also be finding my own way home from the airport. Even if she "insists"...