Need some advice if anyone has some to share... we have to make some household repairs in the next few weeks and my H keeps telling me everything is *my* decision to make. This is a point of contention since part of his BD was stating that I made too many decisions and didn't consider his opinion (rewriting of history there)

What should I say when he tells me he feels like I should make all the calls with the house? I'm trying to validate, i.e. "I understand why you feel that way but would still like your opinion".