H stayed at our house again this weekend. He got in town Friday evening, and I was out at an event with my friends that I had before him that he inherited (his friends, too, but point being I've been with these friends for a long time). H wasn't sure if he would want to meet up. One of these friends is who he has gotten drinks w/ a few times, but he hasn't seen anyone else since BD in late October. He came out, and I think this was helpful b/c he saw everyone was normal about things. We were out pretty late. The following day we hung out and ran errands and just enjoyed being around each other. Sunday we had a lunch date then met up with same group of friends for walking around and enjoying our city. Monday I worked, and met him after work with friends that were his before us - I haven't seen them since BD (even though one lives literally a street away). It was fun/normal until the end. H was pretty drunk when I showed up and being very cute, but towards the end of the night got emotional. He did at some point tell me he does forgive me for everything. He was upset bc I didn't want to stay out - I was tired and we had an early group all day outing today. I handled it well but did ask to table any serious talks for when neither of us had been drinking. Today at said outing, something similar happened, but we also recovered. He leaves tomorrow morning, and then will be back in town Friday.
I did finally bring up this couples weekend program that I have looked at. I've brought it up before early in the game, but was waiting until things were progressing to mention it again. He agreed to do it and is looking into signing us up when he is back at work tomorrow, so that was good.
it was nice having him socially integrate. We didn't only see "my" friends, but some of his, and then also some of our joint friends today as well. I want to bring up going back to MC again soon, b/c I do think we have some communication issues to still work out. He hasn't mentioned moving home or anything, and I am not pushing that. He was so excited to introduce me to new people yesterday, and we took a bunch of pictures together today. He held my hand a lot over the weekend. We have been intimate once this weekend (tried a few other times, but ...life).
