I am back at work - it sort of feels good... sort of like an out of body experience.
H contacted me yesterday and said he was inaccurate on a couple of things. I was at work so rather than text I called. He stated it wouldn't be best to talk while I was at work and when would I be home for lunch. I told him I wasn't getting a break today.
I had plans last night so never even saw him.
So I texted last night to see when we could talk ---- I should have let him come to me and bring it up. But he left the initial martial assets paperwork on the table with a cover letter from his legal services.
He said he wasn't going to do it over the phone. But, said nothing more. I wished him a good night.
Today I texted to let him know I would be home at 12:30 if that worked for him. ----- that was probably too accommodating.
NOTHING
All I can say is he said we can do what I want... and I wanted legal S for now. It sounds like he is not happy about the details of legal S and he is probably talking to all his friends/co-workers about why he doesn't want this so he will feel supported just going to D.
Its just he wanted to discuss yesterday and I was not available.
TODAY its back to radio silence.
I have atty appt on Thursday to go over my options.
He is in full blown A but he doesn't see it as an A... he says he is no longer a married man.
Reading DR book again. Will focus on me this evening AND I will stop all contact.
