what should a stander do, exactly?

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Hi G

Glad you are doing better
That is awesome!!!!

Not sure about the question

But I saw indifference in my xh before Bomb
It started when he thought he coulddo whatever, whenever he wanted stay out all night ect
His mind was made up then and MLC had already taken him

I have not seen any changes in him but we dont keep in touch
Many may use drugs, prescriptions ,alcohol ,affairs, sex ,gambling ,shopping ect to continue to run and hide from their feelings

keep up the good work