Remember how we came up with the term CAGD (Crap at going dark)? Maybe we need one like that for over-validating and how it becomes ineffective when not deserved. I am of two minds on the validating, esp for crap behavior (for kids and Hs alike)!

Blu


“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela