I read your thread and have some questions. Is there a link to your previous threads or were you not wanting to do that? I am wondering the extent of his alcoholism and how many years, his willingness to acknowledge it and get help for it, ie does he have a desire to live a sober life, and also if you have ever participated in any codependency support? I am wondering how much of your M issues are related to his alcoholism and inability to cope with things because his drinking/numbing himself instead. I have a friend that recently split with her alcoholic H and I have some thoughts on your sitch. Sorry for so many questions!
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela